Sermon: Growing into Friends of God – John 15:7-17
I preached again!
Once again, I was back in Paulden covering for Brother Paul. We both have been retreading ground. In my last sermon, I preached verses 1-11, and last week Paul did the same (covering things from a slightly different angle.)
This week, I started in verse 7, so only a little retreading.
As usual, these are rough notes, and I added quite a bit.
Unfortunately, the recording had a major error, so there is no video or audio. At least you can read my notes, I guess.
Growing into Friends of God – John 15:7-17
Intro – The Day I “Became a Man”
Our society today rebels against true manhood and womanhood, against all the things God calls good: family, traditional roles, childhood and parenthood.
Frankly, it is all stupid, especially as they wonder why our society is going to hell in a hand basket, even as studies keep coming out showing the importance of fathers and two-parent homes, the rise in depression especially among younger generations and even those who “find their true selves” through gender-swapping and transgenderism, and the yearning for justice that no one can find.
Yet, growing up I wanted to be like my dad.
I remember the day I knew he saw me as a man. It was a summer day in 2002. We were taking our almost annual road trip from Illinois to Upstate New York to see family and friends. I was 18-going-on-19, and I was ready for the regular 12-14 hour day of riding in the back seat, reading, playing some games with my siblings, maybe pretending to nap. (I don’t nap well while traveling.) My dad usually drove, though sometimes he would have my mom drive for a couple of hours to let himself rest a little.
We made our stop near the border of Indiana and Ohio, did the usual rest stop stuff and got some lunch, and then headed back to the car.
Dad stops me a few feet from the car, dangles the keys in front of me, and says, “Ready for your turn?”
It was huge. I knew I was a man that day.
But he also went through a quick list of “remember this and that” for safe driving and such, as well as a reminder that he would be next to me if I got worried or needed to pull over.
In other words, “You’re not a kid anymore. Remember the rules, and remember I am here to help.”
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Before we resume John 15, let’s remember what we’ve talked about.
The past two weeks, Pastor Paul and I covered abiding in Christ.
We discussed much about obeying God, showing we love Jesus by obeying His commands.
What are God’s commands?
- Love God with everything you are;
- Love other people;
- Love each other, the Church.
There are different ways of doing this, yes, but there are some specific ways of doing this.
As Pastor Paul reminded us last week, the people of Israel were supposed to be the light to world drawing other people to God. They were God’s vine that consistently did not grow good fruit, so He had to cut them off.
Not just prune the vine. He had to cut them off. First through exile, and then, after Christ’s ministry and resurrection, the destruction of the nation of Israel (until 1948).
He gave a new Vine, Himself, to make a new people, the Church.
In other words, if we want to do truly good works and find eternal life, we must be found in the Vine of Christ. Only in Christ do we find life and fulfillment. Only in Christ, the faithful Son, can we be faithful to obey.
We must be a people who desire Christ more than anything, only finding our fulfillment in Him.
This leads us back to John 15, starting in verse 7.
Reading
John 15:7–17, ESV
If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. These things I command you, so that you will love one another.
Growing Up
Just like my Old Man showed his love by letting me drive, we see here that Christ is showing God’s love for us.
We are being elevated from mere servants of God to friends.
I don’t know if I ever would have asked to drive on a road trip. That was Pop’s job. He did the hard work of driving, even if I really, really wanted to drive.
I don’t think we realize what we fail to ask God for in this life.
Many teachers, preachers, and theologians today like to teach “See! We can ask for whatever we want!” To the point that some famous preachers say they had to ask God for a new luxury car, a bigger house, and a faster private jet. Verses 7 and 16 say so!
Is this what Jesus is saying we should be doing?
“If you abide in me … whatever you ask the Father in my name …”
We should be asking according to Jesus’ will.
Am I saying we should never ask for things or to drive our dad’s car? No. God loves when we talk to Him, even over seemingly trivial things.
However, this passage and others show that we ask according to His will.
The Mega Millions was just at $1.3 Billion (a winning ticket was sold in Chicago). It got me thinking about all of those people who win and suddenly find out about family and friends they weren’t aware of. People who come asking for money and/or gifts.
That’s annoying, having people only come to you when they want something, a free handout.
Or if I had started asking random people if I could drive their car. Also annoying and silly.
But Jesus tells us that He is not inviting anyone to come ask Him and His Father for stuff.
Like my dad, He demands faithfulness to His commands, regular obedience.
He wants us to grow up.
My dad didn’t hand me keys to the car when I was five or even 16 years old (though there was practice driving from the age of 15). He waited until I had faithfully shown him that I could be trusted with a vehicle.
Likewise, Jesus says we are His friends if we obey Him. He has shown us we are friends by revealing what His will is.
He says, v. 16, that He chose us to bear fruit, so we know we can bear the fruit He wants.
He says, v. 8, that His will is to glorify the Father.
He says, v. 17, that His will is to glorify God by loving others.
He says, v. 13, that we are to love sacrificially. Even to the point of giving up our lives.
We get over our selfish desires and seek to glorify God by serving others. We are to grow up and start caring for others.
Back in the Garden of Eden, our super-great grandparents chose personal rewards over obedience, and nothing has changed since.
But now we have the Holy Spirit of God who changes our way of thinking and acting to be conformed to the likeness of Christ, to seek the will of God, to love the same way He has loved us.
Some examples
Thus the Lord used to speak to Moses face to face, as a man speaks to his friend.
Exodus 33:11, ESV
But you, Israel, my servant, Jacob, whom I have chosen, the offspring of Abraham, my friend; you whom I took from the ends of the earth, and called from its farthest corners, saying to you, “You are my servant, I have chosen you and not cast you off”
Isaiah 41:8-9, ESV
Moses and Abraham were murderers and liars, yet they were called friends of God because of their obedience and sacrificial love, both giving up children for God.
And through these men, God called people to Himself, not to be selfish but to seek the will of God.
In chapter 4 of his letter, James, the brother of Jesus, told us as much:
What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions. You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God. Or do you suppose it is to no purpose that the Scripture says, “He yearns jealously over the spirit that he has made to dwell in us”? But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.
James 4:1-10, ESV
So, the message?
Grow up. Be a friend of God, one who seeks His will and glory above your own, who loves God by loving others.
Be humble and realize your dependence on Him, drawing near to abide in His everlasting love.
We live in a world that says we should be seeking our own comfort and glory, but God demands obedience to His will. And He helps us be faithful if we draw near.
My dad didn’t give me the keys to the car because I was the greatest driver in the world.
He gave me the keys of the car because he loved me enough to train me to drive and rewarded my faithfulness to growing. (Even though I still had a ways to go!)
Likewise, Jesus gives us His Holy Spirit to go into the world and bring glory to God.
He promised (in the last chapter, 14:18) that He would not leave us as orphaned children, rather that He would help train us up and empower us by His Holy Spirit to preach the gospel to whole world, loving them as He has loved us.
[Hebrews 6:1] “Therefore let us leave the elementary doctrine of Christ and go on to maturity,” [2 Peter 3:17-18] “beloved, knowing this beforehand, taking care that you are not carried away with the error of lawless people and lose your own stability. But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen.”
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